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A Gentle Warning About Golden Retriever Puppies

Many people fall in love with the Golden Retriever breed after meeting a calm, well-behaved adult. I completely understand that feeling, adult Goldens are gentle, loving, and incredibly easy to be around. However, I believe it is important to offer a gentle warning: Golden Retriever puppies are still puppies. They do not start out with the calm maturity you may admire in an older dog.

In fact, I often see questions in online forums from new owners wondering if their puppy is “broken” because the puppy is full of energy, nipping, and pushing every limit. This is all very normal. Golden puppies are intelligent, active, and playful. They explore the world with their mouths and test boundaries as part of learning how to interact and behave.

That said, not every puppy is the same. Some are naturally calmer, easier to train, and more responsive from the start. Others are more challenging and may test your patience daily. You may find yourself counting the days until the puppy stage begins to fade, and that is perfectly normal too.

Most Golden Retriever puppies fall somewhere in between. They have good days and difficult days. What matters most is having realistic expectations and being prepared to support your puppy through this important stage of development.

In the next section, I will share some of the most common behaviors to expect when bringing home a new puppy, whether it is a Golden or another breed.

Expectations and Preparations for New Puppy Families

Bringing home a Golden Retriever puppy is a joyful experience, but it also comes with responsibilities and challenges. Every puppy is different, but there are a few common things you can expect, no matter the breeder or the specific bloodline. Below are some of the most common areas where new puppy families need preparation.

Obedience Training

Training should begin almost immediately after your puppy comes home. Whether you are using professional help or training on your own, consistency is key. A helpful guide is available through the American Kennel Club, which offers sample timelines and basic structure. Golden Retrievers need training. A well-behaved dog is a dog with manners, and obedience provides structure and confidence. If you ever feel overwhelmed or unsure, please reach out for support. I also highly recommend checking out my BAXTER & Bella Online Puppy School page, which offers step-by-step training programs from home.

Potty Accidents

Even puppies labeled as “potty trained” will likely have accidents in a new home. Many of my puppies are familiar with doggie doors. However, if your home setup differs, the puppy will need time to adjust. Most accidents occur because the puppy does not yet know how to ask to go out in your environment. Take your puppy out every 1.5 to 2 hours, as well as 20 to 30 minutes after eating or drinking. This builds a routine and helps them learn what is expected.

Mouthiness and Biting

Golden Retriever puppies are naturally mouthy. They are retrievers by breed, which means they were developed to carry things in their mouths. This instinct, combined with puppy curiosity, can lead to a lot of chewing and nipping. This is completely normal but does require training. Puppies explore the world with their mouths, just like a human infant would. While their sharp teeth can be painful, there are many positive and non-aggressive ways to teach your puppy what is and is not acceptable. If you are struggling with this, I am always available to help guide you through it.

Love for Water, Rain, and Mud

Golden Retrievers typically love water. Whether it is a puddle, sprinkler, mud hole, water bowl, or even falling rain, they seem naturally drawn to it. This can be adorable, but also a bit messy. New puppy families should be prepared for the possibility of wet paws, muddy floors, and the occasional water bowl splashing session. A love of water is part of the breed’s nature. Some gentle redirection and consistency can help manage it.

Crate Training Challenges

If you are planning to crate train your puppy, please understand that most puppies do not enjoy the crate at first. It is common for them to cry, bark, or fuss, especially during the first few nights. This adjustment period requires patience. Most puppies settle with time, and the crate can become a safe space when introduced gently and consistently.

Waking Up at Night

Puppies have small bladders, which means they often need to go outside during the night. Expect to wake up one to three times nightly during the first few weeks. Light sleepers may wake when the puppy stirs, while deeper sleepers may need to set alarms. If not addressed, nighttime accidents may occur. This is completely normal and part of raising a young puppy.

Chewing

Golden Retriever puppies, like most breeds, will try to chew anything within reach. Puppy-proof your home in advance and keep tempting objects off the floor. Provide appropriate chew toys and gently redirect the puppy as needed. Training and supervision will go a long way here.

Puppy Diarrhea

Because of their developing immune systems, puppies may occasionally experience diarrhea, especially if they eat something they should not. This can also happen due to environmental changes or food transitions. You may find yourself making an unexpected trip to the veterinarian. I am always happy to discuss possible causes and offer guidance if this becomes a recurring issue. Please do not hesitate to reach out.

Bringing home a Golden puppy is an incredible journey, filled with love, laughter, and yes, a few challenges. With preparation, consistency, and support, your puppy will grow into the loyal, loving companion this breed is so well known for.

Some Helpful Tips for Raising a Golden Retriever Puppy

Raising a Golden Retriever puppy can be one of the most rewarding experiences, but it also requires consistency, patience, and preparation. Here are a few helpful tips I share with all my families to help build a well-rounded, happy puppy.

A Tired Puppy is a Good Puppy

Puppies need both physical and mental stimulation throughout the day. For most young dogs, just three or four sessions of play and training, each lasting around 20 minutes, are ideal. Physical exercise may include short walks or playtime, while mental stimulation should involve basic obedience training or interactive toys like a treat-dispensing ball or Kong.

Keep Your Puppy Close

Young puppies should never be left to roam the house unsupervised. They move quickly, and it only takes a few seconds for them to have an accident or get into something unsafe. Use baby gates, closed doors, or a long training leash to keep your puppy near you. This helps build a stronger bond and limits problems caused by curiosity or small bladders. If you cannot supervise, place your puppy in a crate or a safe “puppy room” with toys, food, water, and soft bedding.

Early Cuddling Builds Future Cuddlers

If you want your adult dog to enjoy cuddling, you need to help build that bond early. Spend quiet time holding your puppy, gently rubbing their belly, or letting them rest with their head in your lap. I have adult dogs that still flip over for a belly rub the moment they hear the invitation, and that connection began when they were young.

Chew Toys Are Essential

Chewing is a natural part of puppy development. It helps with teething, strengthens the jaw, and satisfies their instinct to explore with their mouth. Be sure to offer a variety of appropriate chew items such as non-rawhide bones, durable rubber toys, soft plush toys, and chew-safe balls. Without these options, puppies may turn to furniture, doors, or walls instead.

Gentle Handling Builds Trust

From an early age, take time to gently handle your puppy’s ears, feet, tail, and mouth. Practice calmly reaching into their food bowl or removing a toy from their mouth. Always return it unless the puppy shows signs of guarding, in which case, take a break and return the item later. Regular, gentle exposure builds tolerance and trust, making grooming and vet visits much easier as they grow. Introduce different sounds and sensations too. Softly clanging pots, unfamiliar noises, or sudden movement can help desensitize your puppy in a healthy, controlled way. This early exposure will serve them well in adulthood.

Socialization Is Crucial

A well-socialized puppy is far more likely to grow into a confident, balanced adult dog. While your puppy is completing vaccinations, invite visitors to meet them in your home. Allow your children’s friends to interact with the puppy under supervision. Once your puppy is fully vaccinated, begin exploring the world together. Short car rides, visits to the pet store, school pickup lines, or quiet walks around the block are all excellent opportunities for exposure. Socialize your puppy not only with other puppies, but also with adult dogs and unfamiliar environments. Camping trips, neighborhood walks, or visits to family homes can all help your puppy develop into a stable and adaptable dog.

Be Patient

There will be moments when your puppy tests your patience. In those moments, it is important to remain calm. If you feel overwhelmed or frustrated, place your puppy in a crate or safe space and take a moment to reset. Return when you are ready to engage with kindness and clarity. Patience is one of the most important tools you have as a puppy parent.

Reach Out for Help When Needed

If you are struggling, please know that you do not have to navigate it alone. A reputable breeder should be a resource for guidance and support. I am always happy to assist my puppy families with questions or challenges. Build a strong relationship with your veterinarian as well. When choosing a vet, look for one who is open to answering questions by phone. If they do not make time for your concerns, it may be time to find another provider. Professional trainers are also an excellent resource. Even if you are comfortable handling basic training at home, professional support can make a significant difference, especially if your puppy presents behavioral challenges you are not sure how to handle.

Raising a Golden Retriever puppy takes time, love, and consistency, but the results are well worth the effort. I am here to support you every step of the way.

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